I was recently asked by a local college to do a tele-class call. No problem. Booked the d...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/27/youve-screwed-up-now-what-do-you-do/ Limiting beliefs, just like positive, empowering thoughts, provide a foundation for our experiences and what we demonstrate. Old beliefs can leave us behind - and are often stale, lingering ideas left-over from our childhood experiences or from other areas of life that no longer carry any useful ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/26/be-abundantset-a-new-mental-equivalent/ First let me tell you that this article was NOT intended to be humorous at all. It was simply meant to be an informational piece about shower heads and what people preferred. The more I investigated the more I found there were huge differences between what men want vs. what women want in shower h...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/25/shower-heads-women-vs-men/ Have you ever been told by someone that you love or by someone of higher authority that words don't hurt? Have you been told that as long as you are not being hit, that it is ok to be abused?

Well think again because "ABUSE" is abuse whether it is done physical, emotional or both and it ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/24/do-words-really-hurt/ Couples therapists report a 50% increase in female infidelity. The cover story in the current issue of Newsweek magazine is all about cheating wives: "The New Infidelity - From Office Affairs to Internet Hook-Ups, More Wives Are Cheating Too." Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has become,...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/23/is-she-cheating-many-unsuspecting-husbands-find-out-too-late/ Last weekend I had the joy of attending a member retreat at my favorite spiritual playground Columcille. This place of monoliths, myth, mystery, and general spiritual journeying has been a most special place to me for almost 10 years now. In fact, my partner and I had our commitment ceremony ther...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/22/7-keys-to-cultivating-magic-and-innovation/ She peeks outside her window as if no one can see her. Ms. Creola is the community gossiper. Later, Ms. Creola watches Sylvia, her neighbor across the street. Sylvia is married, but her husband regularly travels out of town. Ms. Creola notices that a minister regularly visits her monthly. Ms. ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/21/stop-that-vicious-gossip-familyvision-column/ Sex with the right partner can be wonderful, pleasurable and satisfying. When two people physically connect, sex can be liberating and the orgasm powerful. However, many people report having difficulty in achieving orgasm and when they do, it is sometimes disappointing. Others say that it is not ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/20/achieving-orgasm-getting-the-most-out-of-it/ Last time we left off talking about what hinders us from being our sister's keeper. We will look at the example in the Book of Ruth to guide our discussion. What hinders us can be a wrong decision, wrong direction or wrong disposition.

In Ruth 1 :1-5 we find Elimelech, his wife Naomi and t...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/19/am-i-my-sisters-keeper-part-iii/ As Carl Rogers said, "The major barrier to mutual interpersonal communication is our very natural tendency to judge, to evaluate, to approve or to disapprove." Approval usually comes when my perceptions of your behavior match my assumptions of how I think you should behave. It's time to stop s...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/18/gender-jive-communication-between-men-and-women/ Introduction

In this critique of Women In The Middle Ages, I will identify the Gies' purpose in writing this book and discuss how well they fulfilled their purpose. Also I will evaluate the merits and shortcomings of this book in relation to the themes, sources used, and the ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/17/critique-of-women-in-the-middle-ages/ There are many traits/habits required to be a successful sales person. Determination. Creativity. Negotiation. Superior customer service. Risk taking. Integrity.

You know the one trait that isn't required?

Being a chicken!

This is one of my 7 year old niece's favorite phrases ...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/16/are-you-a-chicken/ Last time we left off talking about the driving force or desire behind being our sister's keeper. Our desire should arise out of a relationship with Christ and a willingness to aid our sister in becoming spiritually mature in the faith and in her walk with Christ. A genuine relationship with Chr...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/15/am-i-my-sisters-keeper-part-ii/ The only thing worst than a man who doesn't know the signs of interest from a woman, is a man who doesn't know the signs of disinterest from a woman.

Its one thing to see a guy totally not able to recognize a woman who is attracted to him, since you can always say that maybe he was gay or...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/14/the-importance-of-knowing-the-signs-of-disinterest-when-it-comes-to-seducing-women/ Muslim men are very proud and full of pride of their manhood. Yet what we find in so many Arab nations is that they lack the balls to put down the evil, which is destroying their reputation as strong nations with strong men. They have failed and are rendered impotent to stave off the Internationa...]]> http://lip-eye-care.iwomenonline.com/2008/10/13/muslim-men-and-their-manhood/